June 13, 2006

The Inevitable

Sometimes I wonder about the timing of things. They pass so quickly and swiftly that you wonder what you've missed. And you keep on wondering because no one is there to tell you what happened. When you open your eyes, you're all alone.

What is it about the heart that makes you bleed? The blood. The heart is the life. Because that is where the oxygen that we breathe is disseminate to other parts of the body. Because when the heart dies, the rest of the body dies along with it.

It’s not easy to get someone who really understands. Once that person arrive, you should hold on tight. At the end of the day nothing else matters except conversation shared. Most disputes are because of difference of opinions. Different ways of seeing things. Doing things.

But life goes on. You can plan, execute, but the result might not be as you hope in the beginning. You can choose to have fun with no care of anything else, but the hurt that you feel at the end is of your own doing. You can tell someone you will love the same person until end of time but the break up is of your own choosing. Sometimes things just don’t work out.

But sometimes they do. So, we must not give up hope. We just need to know to fight which battle. If it’s worth fighting for, shoot away.

And there are also times, when you know you should quit, but you can’t because of circumstances. Because quitting might destroy other people’s havens. So you stay. And you suck it up with your head held high. And you win.

Life is tough. And it is never always fair. You might be the cheered leader today but a sore loser tomorrow. You might be the mighty gladiator yesterday but cower behind bars afraid of death today. You might be a singer whose songs were whistled all year long but forgotten when the rhythm is changed. Life is tough. Life goes on.

This goes out to my friends out there who are holding on, giving up, care not etc. Whatever you do people, you have my full support. We fren fren wat...

5 comments:

D.N.A.S said...

Yeah, sometimes thing's just don't work out no matter how hard you try to correct them, buang yang keruh ambil yang jernih pun tak jalan jugaaaak....

UglyButAdorable said...

yes..life's tough..tks for this entry..got me all geared up..and to ingat that ader org yg lagi susah from me..

Hajar said...

dnas: sometimes we just have to let it go, kan?

adorable: we always "lupa" ada org yg lagi susah from us.. that's human.

Nour said...

Being in love most of the time keeps us going ....It makes one more sensitive and alive. In circumstances where you are holding on to love together with the other party is just soo right but if it is only you who are hanging on to love then the best is to let go....it might hurt you big time but better now rather tahn later.


Hmm am I making sense here?

Hajar said...

nour: precisely. definitely.