I prefer Michael Buble's version of Sway than the PCD's. But, Mike's was not complete, so had to settle for the Kittens'. Okay lah ek?
So, macam mana puasa dah urmm... tiga hari nih? Okay la kan? Macam tak biasa. Hari ni, Jade tak tau lagi nak pi berbuka kat mana. Petang ni ada ala-ala seminar gitu kene attend. Time dia start macam mengarut sikit, tapi tak per la kot. Jade bungkus ajer la roti from kedai Uncle kat bawah opis nih. Balik rumah nanti throw anything into the pan, makan la betul2, yer tak?
I think I'm feeling old. Getting old is one thing, you know. That's natural, nothing you can do about it. Feeling old is different. It's something within your control. Ala... bukan aper, last weekend Mak Jade again raise the same issue/question. She didn't put it into a question or made it an issue lah... rather she made a statement. She recalled years back when my late grandmother, her mother, asked her something about the condition of her (grandma's) skin. To which she replied it's aging process (or something like that). So, Mak said la the other day, when your grandma said this she already have menantus and cucus. Alahai... sebak pulak hati Jade nih. What I could do was only smile. Nak buat cemana, ek? Not within my control to produce a menantu just like that. I doubt anytime soon. Bukan sebab Jade tak nak, tapi sebab tak der calon. It's not like kita boleh main pilih kat shopping complex, yer tak?
Hehe... anyway, Jade cool jer. Tapi tu la, terpikir jugak, takkan la kita nak settle down just to make everyone else around us happy kan? Just settle for anyone so mums won't be worried anymore and dads will sigh their relieves. Tak aci la macam tu kan? Kita nak la kawin because kita suka sangat kat orang tu and orang tu memang boleh jaga kita, betul dak?
The other day Jade mention la kat Mak, Jade kata, kalau mak nak menantu Melayu it might be a long wait la kot sebab lelaki Melayu don't think your daughter is pretty enough for them. Mak tak percaya la kan. Jade cakap kat Mak, relek la Ma... nanti sampai time nanti ader la tuh. Bila dah sampai time nanti silap2 Ma plak sedih Jade nak kawin. He he he...
Iskk.. kenapa orang kita berpendapat kalau kawin baru la bahagia? Kalau kawin masalah boleh selesai ke? No... Jade bukan skeptikal. Just wondering aper la gedugahah nyer pasal kawin nih. Relek la kan. It's out of our control. Jodoh di tangan Tuhan, sampai time jadi la. Yang kita beria-ia nak buat aper, kan? Buat pening kepala. So, tak boleh ke kita just leave it to Him to decide when?
Macam ada sorang kawan Jade ni pernah cakap kat Jade, "Stop playing god, Jade. Let God do His job. You and I, we do our part..." Ni semua sebab dia rasa Jade macam nak control everything that's happening around me. Dia kata Jade ni perfectionist! Boleh ke macam tuh? Jade tak perfectionist laa... He he he...
Anyway, kekata dia tuh ada betul nya. Many a times in our lives we try to play god. Of course lah we faile miserably because we're just humans, kan? So, Jade rasa, we should wear the hats that are intended for us, and the shoes that fit us. That way, our life would be simple, straight forward and we will be happy and contented. Betul kan?
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i kinda agree with u and your friend ... meantime, be cool.
Cool jade.. cool.. (hehe, like me!) :)
I've been 'bombard' by this question on and on till now. Dah tak tau nak cakap apa lagi sampai naik lenguh nak menjawab soalan yg sama. Nowadays, whenever people ask me, i'll say "Dunno.. if ada, ada la.. hopefully"
Kalau tak kawin, tak boleh ker eh? I mean, once kita ni dah besar, mesti ke kena kawin? Kalau single sampai mati tak boleh?
Hmm... i wonder why...
heyya,
Society will always have this thing that if you are not married, you are NOT happy! Well, they can say whatever they want, ajal maut, jodoh pertemuan di tangan Tuhan. We can try our best and hope for the best je la kan. And I rasa the more we want it to really happen, the more it will not happen..I keep telling that to myself..so let it flow, appreciate what we have now..kalau ada ...adalah.. :)
AM: am cool macam teh o ais limau.
AE: burrrr (menggeletar sbb sejuks sgt dah!) hahaha... kawin for the companionship? supaya ada orang boleh jaga kita? supaya tak lonely? supaya boleh dapat zuriat yg halalllllll... hehehe...
nour: saya sangat setuju dgn cik nour... bila nak pi makan nih?
alaa questions will always drag on jade. kalau dah kawen then takde anak lg, ppl would ask jugak. kalau dah ada anak sorang tak beranak2 lagi sorang, ppl would ask jugak.
habis tu mcm mana?
hehehe...kalau tak silap...dengan berkahwin...sempurna la separuh drpd iman kita...ke agama eh....aduiii sudah konpius ni...tapi lebih kurang camtu la....kita melengkapkan agama atau iman kalau tak silap...so kengkawan...kene usaha kan jugak carik jodoh ni....
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