"Would you like to come up for a cup of coffee?"
"Come on in, I get you a drink."
Okay, when did this innocent invitation became a reason to do something else? I never knew that when I say this, the man is thinking of something else. Call me naive or stupid, or a tease for that matter, I don't care. But if I say either of the above to you, it's not a green light to be hanky panky.
Idiot. Just idiotic.
So I tease. So what? It is not a signal that I'm willing to get down and dirty with you. Sheesh! If I wear something that you think as an invitation to grope as you may please, you'd be mistaken.
And you've got the guts to say women are the root of evil! Aren't men supposed to be stronger and wiser and all that shoot. Why when it comes to socialising women are the cause? What? A man can't think beyond what's between their... ehem.. legs?
Just idiotic.
And to think that we have come so far. But our male counterparts are actually still in the old homestead. Sad.
Okay, do not mistake this post as men-bashing. No. Far from it. I'm just trying to get pass the idiotic grey line.
Let's look at this from another angle.
Women flaunt their... ehem... assets, because they feel good about themselves. This does not necessarily mean they have to wear sheer clothing or bust revealing. They could be wearing head scarves for that matter, but men will still leer. Right? So, women who feel good about themselves, confident, will want to show off their best qualities. But, I don't think it ever cross their mind to make an open invitation for men to take advantage on the situation. Far from it.
It's nice to know that the opposite sex is looking at you. But sadly, apparently, it's not their eyes that are doing the looking. Duhh...
And I've digressed too much. I only meant to talk about coffee. And I make a good one too. And I don't mean the 3-in-1 satchets.
7 comments:
Dear Jade
Women has every right to do whatever they wish to, provided it falls within the realm of what's allowable as stipulated in the Quran and Hadith.
Yes, women are allowed to flaunt any of her assets as men are also allowed to flaunt their cash.
Ever noticed that ladies of the evening as often wears nothing but only a few stands of material just sufficient to cover their you know what. Why not some orthodox clothing?
There is built-in mechanism in men that somehow will trigger certain reaction when put in certain situation. The so-callled hormones will go into over-drive as this is a natural reaction. Without this 'desire' (or plainly put - nafsu) men will not be able to carry out his perfunctory (ha ha) task.
The only setback is that in most men, the lack of faith contributes to his inability to control the urge.
Hence, women get the wrong reaction although she innocently gives the 'right' impression.
In contract law, there an action described as - An invitation to treat. Try understand that concept and you understand what i'm babling about.
And yes, by now you must realised that i'm an idiot.
Cheers
galing: yeaa.. an idiot who can talk about contract laws.. hmm.. wonderful.. would you like a cup of coffee? :-p
Jade,
white coffee from Ipoh tu best jugak. You should try it out some time.
On men: Don't they just love sending mixed messages... *sigh*.
On women: Don't we just love interpreting those messages in ways that we thought would benefit us, or worse, we actually misinterpret them further.
*hang head down*
dnas: men are from mars, women are from venus thingy i guess?
adorable: hey! chin up!
Do you by any chance have civet coffee? Cos they go nicely with cohibas cigars........
Thanks for the offer anyway.
Just coffee,right....?;-p
galing: No, but in my stock now is coffee mocha. Yes, just coffee, not even cigar. I don't like smoke... :-p
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